Friday, October 21, 2011

Dreams

Have you ever had a dream and wondered what it means?  Dreams tell us a lot sometimes, and last night I dreamt that I was remarrying or renewing my marriage to my soon to be ex husband.  We were happy, and we were fully aware that our separation was a thing of the past.  Our friends were there, and everyone was excited that we were together.  In the dream I am not wearing a wedding dress, nor are there any rings or anything.  We are in a large auditorium with many other weddings taking place...almost like a wedding fashion show.  The other brides are wearing wedding gowns, but I'm content in my black slacks and simple top.  In my dream I'm also looking for a bathroom, but cannot find one that is private...there are toilets in the center of the auditorium! Well I looked it up because I wanted to see why I dreamt it; I have to add that since my break up with my ex boyfriend, I haven't thought about my ex husband or worried about him.  So I looked it up, and this is what I found:

Marriage
To dream of a marriage signifies commitment, harmony or transitions. You are undergoing an important developmental phase in your life. The dream may also represent the unification of formerly separate or opposite aspects of yourself. In particular, it is the union of masculine or feminine aspects of yourself.
Consider the qualities and characteristics of the person that you are marrying. These are the qualities that you need to look at incorporating within yourself.
To dream that you are getting married to your ex suggests that you have accepted aspects of that relationship and learned from those past mistakes. Alternatively, it means that a current relationship shares some commonality with your previous relationship with your ex. However, since you are aware of the similarities, you know not make those same mistakes.

Nuptial
To dream of your nuptials indicate a reaffirmation of your commitments. It is also symbolic of a transitional stage occurring in your life.

To dream that you are attending a wedding, consider how you feel at the wedding. If you are happy, then you are embracing a new change in your life.

Bathroom
To dream that you are in the bathroom, relates to your instinctual urges. You may be experiencing some burdens/feelings and need to "relieve yourself". Alternatively, a bathroom symbolizes purification and self-renewal. You need to cleanse yourself, both emotionally and psychologically.
To dream that you are in a public restroom with no stalls or that there are a lot of people around while you are trying to do your business signifies your frustrations about getting enough privacy. You are always putting others ahead of your own needs. As a result, you are lacking a sense of personal space. Alternatively, the dream indicates that you are having difficulties letting go of old emotions. You are afraid that if you reveal these feelings, then others around you will judge and criticize you. If you dream that you are in a bathroom meant for the opposite sex, then it suggests that you are overstepping your boundaries.You have crossed the line in some situation.
To dream that you cannot find the bathroom or that you have difficulties finding one indicates that you have difficulties in releasing and expressing your emotions. You are holding back your true feelings about something.

Auditorium
To dream that you are in an auditorium indicates that there is something that you need to learn from others. Pay attention to those around you.

Friend
To see friends in your dream signify aspects of your personality that you have rejected, but are ready to incorporate and acknowledge. The relationships you have with those around you are important in learning about yourself. Alternatively, dreaming of a friend indicates positive news.

Evening Gown
To see or wear an evening gown in your dream represents enjoyment, social pleasures, grace and culture. It also represents the image that you are projecting to others. Consider the color and design of the gown for additional significance. If the gown is very fancy or ornate, then it signifies an elaborate and luxurious lifestyle. If the gown is plain or simple, then it suggests a simplified lifestyle.

Any thoughts?

2 comments:

  1. Thank you for the comments on my blog..there is HOPE! If you were to go back to 2009 when I started blogging you would recognize where you are...you will see that you are not that far from being in a MUCH better place!!!:)

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  2. I can't wait to reach that place, where I find peace & believe in me & love me. It's a hard journey but I'm tired of being fearful & holding back. I was so encouraged reading your blog. I hope to heal soon!

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